Understanding the College Decision Terms

• What it means: The college thinks you're qualified, but they don't have enough space right now. They're putting you on a list and will see if spots open up after the initial accepted students make their decisions.
• What it looks like: You'll receive a letter or email informing you of your waitlist status. They'll usually tell you how to indicate your continued interest.
• Think of it as: Being on standby for a flight. You might get a seat, but you're not guaranteed. It's a "maybe," so don't rely on it. It is very important that if a student is placed on a waitlist, that they send a letter of continued interest.

• What it means: This usually happens with Early Action or Early Decision applications. The college isn't ready to make a decision yet, so they're moving your application to the regular decision pool.
• What it looks like: You'll receive a letter or email explaining the deferral.
• Think of it as: A "pause" button. They want to see how you perform in your senior year and compare you to the regular decision applicants.This is a time to make sure your grades stay strong, and to add any new achievements to your application.
  

• What it means: This typically means the college has offered the student admission with specific conditions they must meet to fully enroll.
• What it looks like: Student will receive a letter or email explaining in details the pathway requirements and duration.
• Think of it as: An opportunity to start your major at a different college, meet the academic requirements or conditions set, and then transfer into the college that was your 1st choice. Conditional Pathways are a good way to gain mastery in your prerequisites as you have specialized advising and support.
  

• Do NOT Take It Personal:

College admissions are complex and competitive.

Not receiving an acceptance doesn't define your child's worth and it is not a reflection of their hard work and efforts. They will land in a college that loves them back, and they will thrive and go on to do great things.

• Colleges Are Businesses Too:

Understand that colleges are also businesses. They have their own institutional priorities that they need to meet, and those decisions govern what type of student they admit. They want to build a diverse and balanced student body, so if the student doesn't fit a certain criteria, then sadly they may not get a spot

• Rejection Is Redirection:

Sometimes, a rejection is actually a blessing in disguise.

It may mean that that particular college might not have been the right fit for your child. Focus on finding a college where your child will thrive, where their passions align with the college's programs, and where they will feel like they belong.

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'Til next time, Asante!